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I'm so fucking bored! Mike just left with nick to go to the auto parts store. Sure I don't need anything there or want anything, especially cuz I have no money, but I'd at least like to go along for the ride. I don't have my own car. I can't leave if I want to, so now I"m stuck at his house. Hell maybe should've stayed home, would've been the same thing. Sitting around with nothing to do but watch tv or play video games. God I hate being bitchy or moody or whatever. Maybe it's because of everything going on and it's bothering me. And my knees hurting so much. Listening to music helps. Mike called me a damn hippy because I had his stereo shaking the walls, lol. Oops. I like my music loud and love to rock out.Listening to Nickleback now. Nothing going on on myspace, nothing at all.Trying to figure out how to put pictures on there, not working too well. I need to figure out how the fuck to put music on my little card for the mp3 player in my p hone.Hell so much stuff that's pissing me off and can't figure it out. Fuck it

Dear Journal,

Wew...This is my first entry, anyway...I just went to Clinic w/ my bro. bcoz he's suffering from Cold & Flu, Tonsilitis & Back Pain.

There's a lot of things in my mind and there's a lot of things that's going on..Last Night i was at home when an Indian Man came to our house to visit, After few hours he told us that he knows how to read palms,so he read my palm and says "you will marry at the age of 19 and then you will have marriage problem then you will be a plain a house wife". And i was like "Oh my god!..i never want to be a housewife!!"...He even told me that i have a lot of boyfriends and that's more than 2 to 3 guys... And i was so shocked. Anyway, Forget about it...

One more thing...I fought with my boyfriend today because he didnt even call me and because of my anger i will never ever wear that ring that he gave. I will never pick his calls, ill not message him, ill stop meeting him and ill try to forget about him...Maybe it's time to move on, but if he really loves me then he will search for me and He will apologize for all the things that he hv done..I know he will never let me go if he really loves me...If that happens then maybe ill forgive him..

节约, 消费, 储蓄和投资

是到了让孩子了解 ‘理财’ 概念的时候了. 我告诉敦敦，妈妈从21岁大学毕业，就在经济上自立了，从此后再也没要家里一分钱，也没指望家里给自己提供住房。你是男孩子，应该比女孩子更早的自立。听到这，敦敦惶恐地算了算，还好，理论上自己还有十年的 ‘皇粮’ 吃。

最近, 刚对金钱有点概念的敦敦开始跟老爹研究 ‘投资’, 尽管他对黄金和股票还不是十分地清晰地了解, 他似乎有点明白 ‘钱生钱’ 的道理了. 老妈, ‘我不再会用红包钱买PSP 或其它的游戏了, 我要把属于我的钱大部分都用于投资. 为今后的雄伟创业计划筹集资金.’

敦敦开始留心自己帐户上的存入和支出，憧憬着自己的金库由小变大，看来投资对小孩也是充满诱惑力的。至少可以避免孩子们乱消费和小朋友间物质上盲目的攀比.

节约意识, 在香港时, 我经常给7 岁的敦敦一些选择, 比如今天可以做出租车也可以坐地铁, 可以吃餐馆也可以回家煮面条. 香港夏天很热, 从地铁出来要在太阳底下走很长一段路, 小孩肚子饿时等回家吃面也不是好受的, 如果他选择吃 ‘苦’, 我会把省下的钱用来给他买玩具. 他最喜欢的一个手动玩具车子是这样积攒了三个月才买到手的, 三个月内我们路过那家店铺门前十几次. 这对一个6岁的孩子是个很好的耐力考验.

消费意识, 我告诉敦敦, 买东西, 一要留心自己的预算, 二要要留心商品的质量, 在预算范围内求得质量的最高. 要计算商品的利用率, 买一件自己喜欢又常用的高质量商品其成本效益最高. 买鞋子不要买多, 但要买款式和质量好的, 因为你天天穿. 敦敦一年四季高兴地换穿两双他中意的新款阿迪达斯运动鞋.

储蓄意识, 我走进玩具店之前, 就给敦敦一个预算, 结果往往是看了一小时还是不能下手买. 因为钱一到他的帐上便立即 ‘升值’, 眼前的玩具就都不合算了. 他决定把钱先存起来, 等钱多一些就够买自己更喜欢的高级玩具.

投资意识, 是一种保值的手段. 敦敦按老爹的指引买了黄金, 在黄金看涨时, 对自己7-8年内把上大学的费用搞定充满信心. 今天他上网玩买股票的游戏, 一买到手股票就跌. 这下才知道风险的存在. 实际上所有投资都应改名叫 ‘风险投资’ 这样可以提醒人们投资是伴随风险的. 投资的动作很像打水漂, 先要把钱投出去, 至于钱还会不会回到帐上, 那是另外一回事情了.

Here goes nothing...My first entry, sigh. I don't know what I want to do with this. All I know is, I want to write. What about? who knows. And I didnt know how to go about it so I started this. I don't have very much time seeing as I need to get ready to go to my lovely job. THANK GOD IT'S FRIDAY!!!!!!!!

Sometimes my job is good, other times...yeah not going there. Ahh the house is peaceful. Katie left for school and to drop off my niece. Can't wait for 11o clock to roll around so I can go home and then to my boyfriend Mikes house. Where it will be nice and peaceful. I'm so tired, was up till 3am and up at 7. Not cool. Damn snow, wish it'd go away. Or maybe someday I can just move to Tennessee. No snow there :P

I like my phone. My sister just got it for me yesterday. Just wish I knew how to get music onto it. Dee dee dee. Just txted Lucy to give me a ride to work. I really need to get up and get ready. I guess that's all for now. I'll tryto make this more interesting. Happy Day! as my niece Aubre says

Hey guys WOO HOO im going to Flordia! I can't wait put i will be posting stuff every day so see ya later bye.

Time: 12:30

Mood: Happy.

Hey guys!

I do Fencing (fencing is a sport) and I have a competition that I'm going to in a few weeks. Right now I practice 2 days a week and I'm not learning fast enough for me to be a much better fencer by the time my competition comes, so I asked my mother if I could go an extra day (the extra day would be free) and she said that I could'nt, because I am already gone 2nights a week . I really need to get another day of practice in but my mom won't let me. I need some help on what I can do to convince her to let me go.

Please respond. Any ideas are great :)

-Kaylee

I try to be happy. I honestly do. Then I think about what happened, and different things that have happened throughout my life and then I just can't. I used to be optimistic. Or at least I tried to be. Now my mind can only see the negative. I don't understand. I know that people tell me that its depression, but I wish it would just all go away. I try to be a happy person, but it's hard to be something you're not.

HEY GIRL, IS IT REALLY SO TOUGH FOR YOU TO CONCENTRATE ON SOMETHING MORE CHEERFULL, TRUST ME THERE IS NOTHING THERE..YOU WONT GO NOWHERE...TRY IT..WRITE A SONG WITH THE THINGS YOU WOULD LOVE TO DO...TURN IT AROUND...YOU MIGHT LAUGH IN YOURSELF AND HAVE FUN WITH IT..COMMON I DARE YOU..TRY IT....I WILL WRITE IT WITH YOU IF YOU WANT....LET ME KNOW DANGLES

He said the words and he wasn't afraid. Now I'm not afraid and I can't stop smiling so hard.

婚姻关系

小孩子对家庭社会学并不是没有见解. 我经常跟敦敦讨论家庭和婚姻关系这个话题, 我问敦敦, 爸妈的婚姻属于那种类型? 他想了一下说, 你和爸爸是石头和棉花的关系, 你是石头, 爸爸是棉花, 石头是硬的,很容易将棉花压住, 棉花见石头来势汹汹就会变得更加柔软. 棉花被压得动弹不得, 石头陷在棉花里自然也难以移步, 因为动不了, 只好仔细看对方, 靠彼此欣赏过日子了, 因此棉花和石头的婚姻不高调但相对稳定.

两个石头的婚姻是最惊心动魄的, 两石都很强势, 会瞬间撞击出炫目的火花, 但彼此的硬度决定将会磕碰一生, 运气差的搞不好会将对方撞碎, 运气好的也会彼此弹出好远. 聪明的石头夫妻会选择保持一定的距离. 距离既能缓冲石头动能的破坏性又能增加石头的整体美感. 石头夫妻不应该总守在一处, 应该是东邪西毒各自各精彩.

两个棉花, 彼此萍水相逢, 在石头未出现之前, 随机地粘在一块, 这种或然关系并不十分牢固, 只要大石头一出现, 彼此的关系就会发生变故, 要么石头把其中一个棉花刮走. 最惨的是当一个棉花被一个石头压住后, 另一个棉花没能力抽身. 最好的结局就是, 正好有另外一块石头经过, 顺便把它带走.

谢谢‘棉花-石头’ 理论的创始人敦敦, 用清楚的表达帮爹娘闹清楚这十几年的婚姻原来是这么回事.