'敦子'论人生
不知从何时开始, 我家的'大哲人'敦子晚上开始对老爸老妈睡前布道, 昨天晚上敦子给不开窍的两老谈人生, 我亲爱的鼠爹, 猫妈, 人生就如同浪花, 有起有落。
自觉不笨的鼠爹, 觉得能领会哲人的思想, 抢先解释说, 是啊, 漫长的人生不容易, 坎坎坷坷, 起起落落多着哪。 敦子道, 老爸, 您理解错了, 我的意思是, 人生只是一朵浪花, 只有一起一落.
傻鼠爹还不自量力地问, 那你老爸我，目前是在'起'还是在'落'的阶段呢, 敦子觉得没必要正面打击老爸的情绪, 只是微笑地告诉他可爱的老爸, 人生在走下坡路时尤如坐 '过山车下山' （a rollercoaster ride） , 内心是充满恐惧的, 要想对付恐惧，关键是要学会 'scream out loud'.
鼠爹英文底子厚，马上用中文重复scream out loud 的字面意思，敦子还不得不点拨鼠爹，在人生走下坡路时，你要更加善于表答自己内心，不能把问题闷在心里。
比如，爷爷奶奶到了这般年纪还没有完全放开，看得出他们不够潇洒，应该鼓励他们大胆地表达自己的恐惧，敢于诉说恐惧的人，内心的恐惧其实已经消失了。
我问'敦子'，如果人生只是自生自灭的一朵浪花，意思就不大了。敦子说，事实上大部分的人确实只是匆匆过客，只有极少数能看破生死的人比如老子，庄子等，他们的思想会在消失之前赶上下一个浪花，一浪一浪地流传下去。
敦子的'人生高论'还真够他爹妈喝一壶的，似乎比'人生如梦'的论断更深奥，看来鼠爹和猫妈不得不认输了，无论读多少书，我们的悟性也不可能赶上眼前这位'天生的哲人'。我们也不用再为在'哲人'面前不留神显的浅薄而烦恼了。因为那是庸人自扰。
I'm definitely paradigming into some sort of new birth. A lot is changing about me. My likes, my dislikes, my tastes... Up until now it's been me piggy-backing offa the ideal christian or some kinda of a philanthropist. I think I'm turning into a realist. I still have my heart though. I don't think that will ever change. I can't be rude or arrogant for the most part, probably that's just like the next person. I'm still modest and don't know my own potential. And that is a good driving force. The fact that I might not be on everyone's A-list pushes me forward. That's not a bad thing, as long as it concerns work, co-workers and important relationships.
Here's somethings I need to change pretty soon: Research and change Car Insurance and Cellphone Service Provider. I also need to figure out the Post box.
NOMOREEEE SCHOOL!!!!!! omfg i am so happy. All this year i was waiting for this day...I didnt hug John he was hugging his "friend" thats name always flies away from my mind. I am going to the Public pool tomorrow and swim. Chris was flirting with me
Yes...im playing Flyff!!I read alot about and i guess i should try it out!!it's quite fun but VERY addictive!!!I got a little help from somebody(if somebody asks who is it then i will tell).I dragged Stacia to play it too.So sad her download is not done so she cant play...
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