敦敦的责任感
敦敦在香港出生长大，对香港有很强的归属感，不论在那个国家旅游，他都主动地向朋友介绍自己的家人，这位是我的爸爸，他来自上海，这位是我的妈妈，她来自北京，我是Leo, 我来自香港。敦敦不能容忍我说香港的任何不是。
为了让孩子知道自己的‘根’在哪里，我每年都带他回国，到爷爷，奶奶在上海的家和姥爷，姥姥在大连的家。
孩子是很敏感的，在大连，第一次目睹出租车司机向车外‘自然’地吐痰，4 岁的敦敦惊呆了。从那以后，一下飞机，一路上我就不得不淹没在敦敦对中国的批评声中。为什么到处都这么脏？为什么没人遵守交通规则？为什么街边的楼修的这样难看？为什么？为什么？那年，中国足球队冲出了亚洲，广播里热血沸腾的评论恼怒了敦敦，他说，中国有大把的问题，丝毫没有理由为这点成绩骄傲。
我告诉敦敦，中国不富裕，很多人没受到过良好的教育，虽然多年来，我们生活在国外，但这个发展中的大国是爸爸妈妈和你的祖国，你可以批评她，但光批评是没用的，你有责任让她变得更好。没想到他眨了眨眼，坚定地说了声，‘妈妈，中国是有很多毛病，但我没有放弃中国’。我听了他用‘放弃’ 这两个字，真是哭笑不得。难道天降大任于吾儿也？
喜欢中国文化的敦敦，刚来上海半年，他的中文就有了长足的进步。前天，他兴奋地告诉我，他能享受到读中文书的乐趣了。如果海内外无数中国人的子孙都不放弃中文，都不放弃中国，这若大的中国，离文明富裕就不远了。
Soo heyy pplz today is a new day and its monday unfortunately but i had a long hectic weekend...so first off friday was fun it was all my gurls together that would be my sister and her friend who is like me sister and my cuddy dina and my bestest judi and then her b/f roger and my other friend jess... we went to the elmton then went to my cuzins house it was a fun nite then saturday i had to go to this YSU thing with my sister but i get home andfell down the steps and like fucked up my ankle and then i lose my phone charger so i have no idea what i'm goin to do about that...but i'm startin drivin school soon so i can finally get my licence..and i kinda always said that i wuld take my friend judi to see her b/f in canfield but then i decided i shouldnt really becuz she never really talks to me ever and i regret callin her my bestest in the beginning cuz shes changed and i kno now that she did it wit her b/f she'll be all boii crazii over him 10000000 times worse...but its ok shyt happens but about gettin me licence and shyt yea i just dont wanna be used cuz it happens too much to me by like everyone and their mothers lol not really but i dont wanna write a book so catch ya guys on the flyp side:]]
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Jessy5211 35, Female, Ohio, USA - 22 entries
