Hey everyone,
� so im new to thiss. haha. just a little bit about me, um i live in a little town in texass. 17, sophomore. and have a complicated life. haha. in a wayy. here to meet people so get at me (;
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How wierd it is to say that I am looking for love..I do not mean SEX..which one can think about . The meaning that I have for love is something above it. Its the value to the relationship given and way its� expressed. Hope to find one soon...
I want to start blogging this year about my weight problem, i don't know wich bloggs are out there, I think would be good journal everyday what i do, I eat, my progress etc,
I think god works in strange ways. you know why i think so? because when the whole world tells me to go after this 19 year old who has constantly flirted with me and i will add that he is friends with my sisters boyfriend he is the guy i always find myself crying over. Recently i was cheated on and i have been looking for someone who would understand that and i really thought it was him. So, many things we've said to each other that made it seem that him and i would maybe work. He called me beautiful instead of hott, he always i.ms trying to catch my attention but, he flirts with my friend amanda too. I know what you're thinking - WELL OBVIOUSLY, if hes flirting with your friend that hes a total manwhore. Yes people i am aware of that but, when he flirts with her its more of a "i wanna fuck around with you attitude". But..when hes talk to me it's more of a deep conversation where its like he has respect for me. I really dont know. So, anyways how i found out he was like this was last night while we were sitting inside the place where he worked. His friend said to him "Man, you gotta stop tryna get wit all these girls." and my heart dropped. you know that feeling in your chest like you wanna cry and scream and your so mad? Well, that was running through my body. So, what shocked me the most was his response "They dont care." Like he has NO respect for girls. So, then�i think�back to all the conversations we've had....and i just sat there and looked away and i was just silent. What more could i do? Im so sick of getting hurt. That pain is just so overwhelming it affects everything and not having anyone to confide in when the rest of the world was against you when YOU yourself was the victim it hurts..I remember every night for the past 2 and a half weeks i cried myself to sleep. I couldnt be alone, or that pain would just overwhelm me like, i couldnt even control myself. None, even gave a shit all they did was talk about me and how being depressed was STUPID?.. When i say that human beings are disgusting and vile im not lying. theyre so vindictive(sp?) and selfish and so ignorant that all they think about is themselves and they find ways to bring people down out of jealousy or maybe just because theyre hateful people. But then that leaves the 11% of the world that care about other people and are so understanding and good. I wish we could just unite because i know that that would be pure peace. Anyways, so i always get these vibes from people, you know? like if they were bad people or good people or�maybe a misunderstood person like myself. So, the vibe i got from James, well truth is i never really cared what vibe i got just loved him he was so amazing i just found myself liking him and didnt care what vibes i got. So, back to the situation, a few nights ago he told me about his ex. How she used him, cheated on him, and she hurt him. That reflected on how he said 'they dont care' like he wanted to get back on girls for how how much hurt he felt? If you could understand that. Maybe, he was still hurting inside and getting with girls made him feel better or better yet that he tried to take that pain away or make it subside like the pain i had that hurtful pain. Sometimes, i understand people well thats a lie ALL THE TIME I UNDERSTAND PEOPLE. I understand how they act, what resulted to them acting like that. My fear is that im wrong maybe Amanda was right 'hes 19! what do you expect?' but, if you've been cheated on..wouldnt you have learned already??.. I dont know.�i am so confused sometimes i dont even know what im saying. UGHHHH. Lets see what happens in the future, i might as well stay away from him. Its the best thing to do..right?
After my conversation wtih my gal friends today, I felt so drained, so tired coz they're so negative. Guys, do u know that u have build�a terrible reputation for yourself ? Women find it so hard to trust u! My conversation with gals always revolve around how guys r cheating on their gfs .I feel so disappointed. I mean, certainly there r honest,faithful, really great guys out there right? So why am I not meeting there yet? I know there r guy out there who think the same - that girls r doing a great job on cheating their bfs as well...but for me, I can really guarantee I will stay faithful to my husband as long as I love him. There is no way I will split my heart into 2.
I just think that maybe it's time my gal friends stop telling me how bad guys r or how upset/uncertain they r in their r/s.
God, just really wish, pple can understand me. Being single is OKAY - I'm really starting to believe in this statement. There's nothing wrong if I'm single and virgin at 25.
�I'm really happy with being myself right now, although feeling lonely, just wished there's somebody to hug me and tell me everything's gonna be okay.
We r really just being more than physical beings. Can we ever look beyond this fact?!
Im in a bad because i miss my mom a lot I haventt had time to perpare myself for her going to iraq yet and im not sure how its going to go the day she leaves to go to iraq i know im gonna cry but what can i say i mean come on my moms going to iraq she may not come back i dont wanna put it that way but its true shes going out of country for a year shes going to war anything can happen over there you never know whats gonna happen over there i know i need to tell her that im finnishing school in poyen but im scared that shell get med at me because she has lost 3 of her kids now i dont wanna live with her and ill know shell be really�upset i just dont know what to do or say because i dont want her worring while shes over there shes going to need to be stress free while shes in iraq but if i tell her that means well be getting money from her so well be able to move into our house because shell be giving him money for childsupport and for me but its just so confusing im always stuck in the middle of a problem and dont know how to solve it i hate bein inthe middle of problems because it stress meout big time it always does then all my friends think im mad at them but im just stressed out sometimes i hate my life!!!!!!!
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BRANDNEWME 49, Female, Mississippi, USA - 3 entries
