3/12/07-Woke up a little later than normal (around 7:30). Got up, freeplayed until breakfast. Dad watched Jackson for about an hour (ate b'fast, played and watched 15 min or so of TV). Afterwards we colored at the table for 20 min or so, followed by manipulatives (picking up small objects w/tweezers) for about 15 min or so. Freeplayed in living room for 20 minutes, then played in backyard for an hour (sandbox, water play, basketball, slide). Came inside, took a bubble bath (played w/squishy foam). Had lunch, ate well. Played with cars in living room and then helped vaccuum. Read stories and went down for nap, SLEPT for almost 2 hours. Got up, watched short Max & Ruby video (30 min) and then played with legos in living room for 20 minutes or so. Ate a "picnic" dinner in living room, ate all well. Then played with Daddy for 45 min., cleaned up. Stories, bedtime routine and went to bed. Total TV for the day: an hour. Total TO's: 1 (fighthing w/sister over a toy during freeplay). Brushed every 3 hours (including right before naptime and bedtime).
理想
07 年9 月 我们搬进了上海宽敞的房子。看着饭桌上丰盛的饭菜，敦敦闷闷不乐。妈妈，我有点烦，有点烦，我问他，为何有点烦，他说不出。
我告诉他，我们现在生活在中国，在中国有很多的孩子生活在很差得环境中，吃不饱，吃不好，没钱买书本，更没钱买玩具。你是个十分幸运的孩子。你吃得好，穿得好，住得好，有条件受最好的教育，你能享受各种玩具，跟爸妈生活在一起，这些你平常认为理所当然的条件，在很多孩子来说是奢望。
我又接着说，有很多人生活在这个世界上，什么都有，但他们光想着自己，没有生活目标，所以并不快乐。敦敦瞪大了眼睛，看着我。没有说话。我问他，孩子你拥有很多别的孩子没有的机会。你能为这并不富裕的中国做点啥？
孩子的双眼顿时出现了光彩，他想了想，然后一字一句地说：‘我想在我十八岁之前，用自己的努力去帮助一百个贫困的孩子。妈妈，我真高兴极了，我感谢你，因为，我觉得我不只是现在有了生活目标，我一辈子都有生活目标了， 我觉得浑身都是劲。’
敦敦开始了他自发的第一个项目，攒报纸，瓶子，老公不遗余力地支持儿子，提供旧报纸，敦敦以前所未有的认真态度，每月把‘进账’ 记得一清二楚。当他用小手毫不犹豫地捧出自己半年来积攒的平生第一笔‘收入’，捐给柬浦寨吴哥儿童医院时，我亲了亲他的小脸说，‘孩子，你了不起，你比妈妈强！’敦敦笑了，他笑得很甜。他第一次体会到给予的快乐。
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