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21
Jul 2010
7:42 AM CST
   

Adoption

What do I want? I have no clue.

Okay so my mom died when I was 12. I am now 16 going on 17 next month. & during this time period my grandparents got the rights to adopt me. But now that I am so sick I need better insurance and the only way to get good insurance is for my aunt and uncle to adopt me.

Don't get me wrong I love my aunt and uncle to death. I mean they are both like my mom and dad (literally). Even though my grandparents adopted me, i have been living with my aunt and uncle. (until i got sick, now im staying with my grandparents)

But now my aunt has been pushing for her to adopt me just so she can put me on her insurance so I can get better care. She has been talking about this for a while and I went along with it and thought I would be ok with it. .. until now

I think finally my grandparents agreed to give over the custody so that I could get better insurance. But it just breaks my heart that they are having to do that. I feel like they are being forced to give me up just for my health. I don't want things to change from the way they are now. I want them to stay the same. If I just knew that my grandparents are okay with it and everything would be fine, I would be perfectly happy. But I don't know that and thats what scares me.

I don't know what to do right now. I'm scared. I hate change.
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