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15
Aug 2008
12:51 AM PDT
   

TGIF

This week I got some advice that has helped me get headed in a better direction. I'm reffering to the delema w/D. I am so grateful that I had an open mind and heart to hearing the advice because I believe everything's going to be fine now!

Enabling, co-dependency, scarie words for the true controller.�But if one can listen and heed the message one could loosen thier grip, relax, let it be.

Yesterday I shared this insight with Bear and when he got home he had had some thinking time on the commute and had a plan! We had a talk with D., shared our plan which ultimately reestablishes the onus for the mess he's in and relieves us of the burdons that were resulting in our panic/co-dependency/enabling behaviors.

I tell you - I feel like a new person this morning! I've had a weight lifted off my shoulders. Don't be surprised if you see me skippin down Main St. today sportin a goofie grin!

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