http://www.warmwisdompress.com/marriage-relationships/Marriage_Isnt_Complicated.aspx

http://www.warmwisdompress.com/marriage-relationships/The_5_Word_Formula_to_Make_Your_Marriage_Work.aspx

Don't cause pain, give pleasure.

give pleasure is speaking in the language of love

Don't cause pain is speaking in a way which does not hurt your partner.

Show your partner that she is important to you.

it was great got to talk to T a little bit to get his perspective. He said that it brought back a lot of memories.  His ex did the same thing to frustrate him.